21 January 2010

ahem ,, uhhmm .. thank u ...!!

okie here goes ,,,!!
i m bout come out in open with my issue ...
everyone has one...
ya for one i have a lot actually ...
but we will be focusing on the one which i m criticsed most bout ..
u know thier thing .. like in love ajj kal .. saif ali khan always drinks black teaa
yaah similarly ,, i have a problem with wishing ...!!!

i like to call it the wishing woes ..
ever since childhood i have found the tradition of whishing people realli stupid ,,,,
u know ilike on birthdays .. on new years ,,,, on diwali.. especially on diwallis it gets worse ,
people come up to u with a broad smile n wish u ...!! ya most people like it ,,
i on the other hand hate it ..
not just because its mentally tiring n repeptively irritating to acknowledge every wish tat u get (which i m bad at .. ) but also because its just so plane fake most of the times ...!!( not always .. most of the times )

wishes r supposed to be warm . they r supposed to make u feel good ,,,
but honestly ther r a very few geuniene wishes tat i have recieved in my life ..
almost all of them feel cold ,,,n i don like being cold ,, i get real awkward around cold people ...!!

i have observed tat most people wish just because everyone wishes ,,, u know .like a ritual we follow without thinkin or meaning it ,,,tats so plane dumb ..
wake up guys ..atleast be aware of wat u r doing
but my prob is even with a genuine wish .. i m the worst wish acceptor ,,,

it so happened once tat it was my b day ..n this guy amod called me .. i preassumed it was for wishin me went like this
amod : hey man ...!!
aman : hey u din have to call ,,,!!
he is lyk wat ?:?
aman : oh no nothing ,,
n then ther was this secs silence
it was such a long sec i cudn take it ,,
i said "happy b day .."
n it waas my b day n i m wishin him
amod : wat :??
n i went like
oh soorry i was supposed to say thanku
wait u haven even wished yet ,,,o fuk ... sorry dude ,,i suk at this i got ur point .. keeep the fuking fone....!!!

u seee ,.. n e ways the whole point of this post is . uknow if itsmy b day or n e other day n u feel obligated to wish me.. well dont ..!!
save me the horror ,,
n if i don wish u.. tat means i care bout u ...
n m saving u the horror of the most awkward cold wish....!!!!:a


  1. wish or no wish.. atleast when someone wishes you.. he is thinking good about you for that second..!!
    you are weird the whole world knows that.. but thats wat makes you funny and interesting.. your ISSUES.. !!

    lol.. welcome.. o sorry thank you..!! haha. bye

  2. thnkx maalpani u r the best man ...!!!

  3. I agree...I don't like the wishes out of politeness or conformity only...where it has become a chore. Like the 'how are you?' 'good' 'how are you?' 'good' exchange of the everyday. Means nothing in most cases. I just don't like conventions for the sake of conventions. I like intent...

    Of course, where people actually mean it, it is cool. And you know when they do. And hmm now seeing 'Malad' I am thinking...Inorbit Mall...Hypercity...I want to be there...(not that I am big into shopping...just nostalgia...)

  4. wb~!!weve missed you!!! :) well..i guess i have given you some awards:

  5. Hey Aman... where do i begin...
    i wish to wish u...hmmm...
    let's see...

    i wish that you stay happy n contended...
    i wish you grow as a person n in your mind..and also as a blogger...
    i wish for you success in all that you do...
    i wish you get mentioned now on more blogs after i have started the trend on my post;-)

    i wish you'd just plain n simply accept that you are cute without the need to call me handsome or rugged for it...hehe..:-)

    birthdays are are just supposed to blush n smile n accept things coming your way...i wish u do that soon

    u don't need the uhem's n aaaa's...just a plain simple thank u...
    wait till your birthday comes...we'll make you learn how to accept them till then;-)
    just follow one simple rule...
    cold wishes=cold thank u
    warm wishes=big smiles n feel good thank u:-)

  6. @ the witch ..1!!
    i stay near inorbit onli ...!!!
    so u have gone baak from india ..??

  7. @ ayu ,,!1 i din knew how to put u the awards so ihave put its picture up ..1!!
    i have neva recived an award b4 , thnxx...!!!

  8. @chocolate lover :: lol i don realli mind the warm wishes which people actually mean ...!!1
    don get offened or something i m tryin to work on it .. its just one of my issuses tat i find hard to deal with ..

  9. nice cartoon.. how long did it take to make this..

    thank u

  10. Oh nice...I would love to be there now...or even just on the auto ride back from Malad to where I mostly stayed in Khar.

    Yes, I am back from India next booked to go back in October, but might be before as I miss it (especially Mumbai) a loooot.

  11. youre welcome..hehe..i wish you visit me soon :) missed you~! ^_^

  12. @suruchi ..!!! u think i din try tat ..
    :))) thank u ,,!!1 like tat ,,???

    i will give it a shot ,,!1
    i do blush while accepting wishes but i feel embarrased bout it ,,!! i don know if i shud feel like tat or not .. but the thing is i do ,, n tats wat makes it so awkward ...11!

  13. @rishi : ya well i din drew it .. amod did ,, tat too on my fb graffitti

  14. wonderful post and feelings indeed

  15. Ohh so now i knw the reason y u wer not telng me ur birthdate..mad..u crazyy..u r suffering from Fragapane smethng abt it...hehehe..''n if i don wish u.. tat means i care bout u ...'' so nw this means u dont care abt me..coz u wished me on my bday..ATAAKA NA..

  16. no lol .. tat was diff ... tat was i remembered ur b day .. n also took the care of whishin u proprly tat means i extra care for u ...

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  18. Ohh hw sweet..thnxx..i thnk dis tym on ur birthday evrybdy who have read dis post r goin 2 take xtra care to make u feel its a ''GENUINE WISH''..hehehe..

  19. Ohh mockz wer ok..nt soo gud..

  20. rofl!!!!!

    awesome..happens at times =P

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